Home>Gift Q&A>Marry>Wedding Gifts>What should I give as a brother-in-law when my brother-in-law is getting married? How much red envel
What should I give as a brother-in-law when my brother-in-law is getting married? How much red envel

My wife's family is from the countryside. My brother-in-law is getting married next month, and there are no other brothers and sisters to discuss with. How much red envelope should we give? Should we give him a gift? What should we give?
Best answer
When the younger brother of the mother's family gets married, the gift money given by the sister and brother-in-law should not be too small. The amount should be based on local customs. Your wife can discuss it with your parents. If you are well-off, you can add more on this basis. That is your own intention, so that you will also be proud.
In addition, the specific amount of the gift money should be as good as possible. 6 and 8 are better. The number 4 should be skipped. It is best to be an even number, which means that good things come in pairs.
I recommend you to give the gift money + gift. It is best to give the gift before the wedding, and the value of the gift is up to you to choose. If you are well-off, you can give a large item, such as home appliances, but you should discuss it with your family to see what is missing to avoid buying too much. Or you can give more gift money and a gift of less value, which can be a decoration with auspicious meanings, or a set of festive bedding. Gifts should be practical, after all, they are given to your family, especially rural people who don't like vain things.
In addition, the specific amount of the gift money should be as good as possible. 6 and 8 are better. The number 4 should be skipped. It is best to be an even number, which means that good things come in pairs.
I recommend you to give the gift money + gift. It is best to give the gift before the wedding, and the value of the gift is up to you to choose. If you are well-off, you can give a large item, such as home appliances, but you should discuss it with your family to see what is missing to avoid buying too much. Or you can give more gift money and a gift of less value, which can be a decoration with auspicious meanings, or a set of festive bedding. Gifts should be practical, after all, they are given to your family, especially rural people who don't like vain things.
liked
24 Liked
Wedding Gifts Recommended
Related Q&A
Other answers
- The gift money should be based on the local standard. I think in addition to the gift, it is better to buy something for your brother-in-law. After all, it is a gift from your sister and brother-in-law. It is only once for marriage, so it cannot be too shabby. You should consider it.
- This is to make your wife proud in her parents' house, so you can't give less. It depends on your financial strength. If you have money, give more, but don't give more than the elders.
- In our area, when a younger brother gets married, the older sister who is already married has to give a big gift. The specific amount to give is different in each place. You have to discuss it with the elders in your family. At least it cannot be lower than the local standard. Giving more will give you more face.
Wedding Gifts Ranking
16336 Liked Added to Cart
- Crystal Piano Music Box Customization
- $45.36/ $108.006336
2823 Liked Added to Cart
- DIY Photo Crystal Windmill Ornaments
- $11.76/ $28.00823
3786 Liked Added to Cart
- British style couple swan ornaments
- $53.76/ $128.00786
4759 Liked Added to Cart
- Happy Marriage Couple Swan Ornaments
- $63.84/ $152.00759
6628 Liked Added to Cart
- Photo Love Silver Coin Customization
- $22.26/ $53.00628
7558 Liked Added to Cart
- Wedding photo love tree
- $48.30/ $115.00558
8554 Liked Added to Cart
- Wedding photo crystal chandelier
- $78.12/ $186.00554
9531 Liked Added to Cart
- European style bedside wedding table lamp
- $49.56/ $118.00531